From J. M. Herbert   13 January [1839]

Hertford

Sunday 13 Jary.

My dear Darwin,

In sending you the accompanying species of the Genus Forficula,1 (Do I betray my ignorance of Natural History by the Expression?), I hope I have hit upon a useful domestic article, & at the same time one that will not clash with the Forget-me-nots of other Friends.

When under ordinary circumstances a man marries, it imposes upon his friends the serious burden of saying all the civil things they can think of— In obedience to to this custom I must say something on the occasion of yr. signing & sealing the surrender of your independence; but, thank God, it is unnecessary for me to measure either my esteem for you, or my wishes for yr. future happiness, by the set forms of compliment, or I might find them untranslateable into the language of the Polite Letter Writer—

I shall content myself therefore with praying God’s blessing on you & yours, & with wishing you all the happiness, that I think you deserve— a cup of joy full to overflowing—

Yrs. ever | J. M. Herbert

As explained in the letter to Emma Wedgwood, [20 January 1839], the ‘Forficula’ (Latin for ‘earwig’) was a silver utensil for serving asparagus.

Please cite as “DCP-LETT-487,” in Ɛpsilon: The Charles Darwin Collection accessed on 5 June 2025, https://epsilon.ac.uk/view/dcp-data/letters/DCP-LETT-487